{"id":1877,"date":"2015-08-29T19:52:13","date_gmt":"2015-08-30T01:52:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.wilsonld.com\/weblog\/?p=1877"},"modified":"2015-08-29T19:52:53","modified_gmt":"2015-08-30T01:52:53","slug":"being-mortal-medicine-and-what-matters-in-the-end","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wilsonld.com\/weblog\/?p=1877","title":{"rendered":"Being Mortal : Medicine and What Matters in the End"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>by Atul Gawande, 2014, Picador<\/p>\n<p>What a depressing subject!\u00c2\u00a0 And yet, this is a book I found I couldn&#8217;t put down.\u00c2\u00a0 It is a book that everybody should read because, for many of us, our\u00c2\u00a0death or the deaths of our family members will not come quickly but will be a prolonged process.\u00c2\u00a0 This book provides\u00c2\u00a0a great deal of guidance and thought as to how to prepare and handle those situations.<\/p>\n<p>The insight the author provides is\u00c2\u00a0extremely valuable\u00c2\u00a0 as he seems to have garnered it from a long career\u00c2\u00a0that involved a great deal of contact with persons suffering\u00c2\u00a0from debilitating and painful disease at the end of their lives.\u00c2\u00a0 The wisdom he passes along\u00c2\u00a0through\u00c2\u00a0his book is truly priceless.\u00c2\u00a0 What I really appreciated was that he does not talk down to the reader.\u00c2\u00a0 He basically says that he, as a physician, didn&#8217;t have a clue about any of this stuff either, but gradually came to his conclusions through a great deal of experience that he is eager to share.<\/p>\n<p>Additionally, the book is extremely well written and structured.\u00c2\u00a0 That prose of this high quality could be written by a physician is a bit beyond belief, so I will surmise that he had an outstanding editor.\u00c2\u00a0 There are many authors out there whose primary livelihood is writing who don&#8217;t come even close to writing the way this book\u00c2\u00a0is written.<\/p>\n<p>In reading the book one naturally refers to the deaths of close family members.\u00c2\u00a0 In my case, I constantly thought of my father who died of prostate cancer after dealing with the disease for many years.\u00c2\u00a0 I thought of all the decisions we made for him and the decisions we left for him and I found myself asking what we did right and what we could have done better.\u00c2\u00a0 I was pleased that the book reinforced some of the actions we took but it also gave me a lot of insight as to what my perceptions would have been had I been in the same situation.<\/p>\n<p>I have found that, after reading this book, I am constantly recommending it to many of my friends and family members.\u00c2\u00a0 In fact, for my family, I am going to suggest that it be required reading for the guidance it might provide them as to how I would like to be treated if and when I am in that same situation.<img decoding=\"async\" title=\"5 stars\" 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